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Sexを語ろう

2016.02.16
様々な意見はあるだろうが、セックスについての誤解を判り易く読み解くコラムが掲載されるのは、イギリスのメディアの良い所だと思う。

Everything you always wanted to know about sex (and weren’t afraid to ask)
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/feb/14/everything-you-always-wanted-to-know-about-sex-embarrassed-ask

 セックスについての誤解、思い違いは洋の東西を問わないのだなと感じた幾つかの点。

 長時間が良いのか、短時間は本当に良くないのか?

Men who find it difficult to orgasm with a partner – or take too long – are often misunderstood, too. Since “lasting a long time” is typically prized, they can be characterised as sexual athletes instead of being recognised as people who never become sufficiently excited to climax. In many cases, they require more vigorous stimulation than can be provided during most forms of bodily penetration. Men who ejaculate “too quickly” usually seek treatment because of shame – or complaints from their partner. Professional help can teach them to recognise their point of ejaculatory inevitability and to control it.

 歳を重ねてのセックス

Common mythology suggests that sexual failure of one kind or another is a natural consequence of ageing. This is untrue. Commonly, though, hormonal changes – and some illnesses or disabilities that can accompany ageing – affect or disrupt the sexual patterns enjoyed in one’s youth. Our society’s prejudice against sexuality among older people doesn’t help, and some people mistakenly accept one erectile failure, for example, as a sure sign of an age-related, downward spiral. As people begin to age, they tend to begin to prefer more direct genital stimulation, so this is a time to request more direct care and attention from a partner, or to provide it for one’s self. Men’s erections in older age may not be as upright as those of a 20-year-old, but this does not make them less proficient lovers; in fact, their experience, knowledge and better communication skills should make them far better. The arousal mechanism of vaginal lubrication may start to take a little longer, too, so women should ask for more oral sex time, longer caresses or whatever arouses them best. If penetration becomes painful due to insufficient lubrication, this is a sign that more arousal is necessary – and perhaps a tube of lubricant.

 極端なことは書かれていなくて、日常の中で、質問する機会がなくて誤解が積み重なっている点を判り易く説明しているので、思い当たる人は読んでみると肩の荷が下りるかもしれない。

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